Make the Commitment to Your Mental Health

As the New Year has begun, many are deciding on what resolutions they should hold on to for 2018. I recommend making the commitment to YOUR mental health. The idea of starting a new year with your own wellbeing as a priority shouldn’t seem so strange, and yet we so often put the needs of others before our own. I would argue that our mental health is as important and certainly interrelated with our physical health. If we don’t take the time at the end of the day to relax or decompress, we often have poor sleep. If we don’t learn to appropriately express our anger, our digestive system can get out of wack. There are so many examples in which our mental health influences our physical health, so why not make it a priority in 2018.

 

What does it mean to take care of our mental health? It means to take time to recognize and acknowledge our feelings rather than just zooming through our day to day. It means if you come home from work after a difficult day, take a minute in the car before entering your house to breath and use self talk to refocus and set intention so that you don’t take that difficult day out on your children or spouse. It means to recognize the positives in what we do rather than solely focusing on the negatives. These little things add up and help us see things from a different perspective. Set an example for your children to have a positive outlook and believe in yourself. You are the first teacher and role model for your children, so show them how important it is to take care of yourself both physically and mentally. If you recognize that taking care of your mental health is harder than you imagined, then reach out for help but don’t think less of yourself for doing so. Reaching out for support when needed shows you understand your limits and want to grow in ways that are difficult to do alone. It is a new year which brings new opportunities to learn about ourselves and reach for the stars.

"There is no health without mental health." - David Satcher

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